Archive for March, 2009

by Catherine Behan
You look hot and you know it. New shoes…new makeup….new dress. You spend the extra twenty minutes to look just right. You walk out to living room and he says:

“We’re late, are you finally ready?”

What?

Isn’t this the same man who told you how beautiful you are every time you went anywhere, even to Home Depot? Do you miss his compliments? Do you miss how he used to look at you?

Well, it is time to take action and get yourself noticed! Here are three action steps that will get you complimented today.

1. Ask for compliments. This is a radical idea, not for the faint of spiritual heart. Start your day asking the Universe, the Divine or whatever you call your higher power to send you people who will compliment you. It is crazy how this works. You ask and then just watch what happens as you go about your business. Try it. Getting compliments always feels terrific and they don’t have to just come from your man!

2. Compliment yourself. This may sound a little loony to you, don’t blame you for that, but it really works. How can we expect compliments from our men when we don’t even appreciate our own looks. Tell yourself how hot you look and do it out loud. Amazing how a week of this will feed your need to feel great about yourself!

3. Compliment random strangers. Think how great it feels when someone notices your new haircut or shoes. Plan on complimenting three strangers a day on something you admire. Watch their reaction, see if you catch any delight or self consciousness.

Think of giving compliments as planting seeds. The more you plant, the more luscious fruit you will reap. After one week of your new complimenting habit, re-evaluate exactly how you want your man to respond to your fashion choices and how you look. Then tell him kindly and directly how his words make you feel. If you don’t need all your complimenting from him, he just may surprise you!

Catherine Behan, M.S. is an Author, Relationship Expert, Seminar Leader, Inspirational Speaker and Internet Advice Columnist. For more information on The Soul Mate Process plus a free audio download check out http://SoulMateSavvy.com

Article Source: Wish You Got More Compliments? Three Ways To Make That Happen

by Todd Gaster
Your attitude determines your altitude — in business and in life. You can’t fix someone else’s attitude for them. But this awesome adage is a great suggestion that you can put in front of anyone who requires an attitude adjustment. I want to discuss a few of the many ways each of us can create a winning attitude each day. It’s what leaders do.

Marcus Aurelius, the great philosopher who ruled the Roman Empire, said it simply: “Our life is what our thoughts make it”.

Dale Carnegie, speaking to that quote said: “Yes, if we think happy thoughts, we will be happy. If we think miserable thoughts, we will be miserable. If we think fear thoughts, we will be fearful. If we think sickly thoughts we probably will be ill. If we think failure, we will certainly fail. If we wallow in self-pity, everyone will want to shun us and avoid us”.

Am I advocating a Pollyanna attitude toward all our problems? No. Life isn’t that simple. But I am advocating — in the strongest terms — that we take on a positive attitude instead of a negative one.

Mental attitude - the power we hold in our heads. Reality can be changed dramatically by a single thought. In food the adage is you are what you eat. In terms of leadership, it’s more likely you are what you think. Contrary to what people want to believe, outside influences don’t usually determine your happiness or success, rather it is how we react to those influences — good or bad. So how do you alter your reactions to those outside forces?

Make how you react a conscious priority, which means practice daily. Laughter is vital. When things are going south, keep everything in perspective and relax. I laugh. Others throw up their hands. Whole industries get very cynical.

Positive self-confident feelings not only help you get more; they also make others want to be associated with you. People are attracted to others who have an upbeat outlook, who have a can-do attitude. Constant complainers don’t collect an easy following.

One of a leader’s most important jobs is to set a positive and self-confident tone, exuding the attitude that failure is not an option. A positive attitude is the cornerstone of leadership. It’s the same confidence that a quarterback, a golfer, or a tennis star projects every time they come out of the locker room.

To gain strength from the positive and not be sapped by the negative, here are a few ideas:

Focus on the 90% of your staff who will run with your outlook and your plan - don’t let the “negative nellies” drown you or contaminate your team.

Tap your spiritual essence at work too - use your spirit and your heart to move you and your work forward.

Break the negative energy cycle — if you see yourself falling down or in a rut, shake it up, change the routine and do something fast that lifts you up. When you see one of your staff members in a rut of unproductive or unprofessional behavior address it, don’t let it fester.

Active listening — takes time. Work at it, to hear what your staff wants. Many times just by being heard, issues can go away and people really make a big turnaround.

You must be the emotional manager of your office - not your assistant, not the new young blood you just hired. In a family, mom and dad must be the emotional managers or chaos rules the home. In your business, you must wear that mantel, albeit reluctantly at times. It’s part of your leadership role and power. Refine it, as well as your reactions to outside events, and you’ll see the culture around you shift to the positive.

Jim Collins points out in Good to Great: When in doubt, don’t hire — keep looking. You can’t grow revenues consistently faster than your ability to get enough of the right people to implement that growth and still become a fabulous company. So unless recruits for the open position have that can-do attitude and are a strong fit for your company in who they are — don’t hire them. The skills can be taught; the and-then-some positive attitude cannot.

As a friend put it recently: “The prerequisite is attitude. Attitude is the one thing we can’t change in employees. You’ve got a good attitude or you don’t. Given adequate ability and desire to learn, everything else can be taught to employees with good attitudes. I have tried many times to teach good attitudes and have come to the conclusion it is about as easy as making a mud fence.”

A poor attitude will pull you down and with it your professional results. A positive attitude will see you over the rough spots and energize you to lift your results to new heights — to match your vision. Whether you need an attitude adjustment a couple of times a day, once a week or only occasionally, never forget that your attitude determines your altitude. Don’t let outside people or events drag yours down.

Todd Gaster is a Master Practitioner and Trainer of NLP, and Hypnosis, a Master Coach of NLP and a Brian Tracy Business Coach. To get your free e-book on How to Program Your Destiny go here now! ==> http://program-your-destiny.com

Article Source: Attitude Drives Altitude

by benla
For a long time I have encourage and inspired readers of my motivational books, tracts and articles to follow their heart’s desires, be true to their dreams and let passion empower their lives. It is quite interesting to hear many inspiring and incredible result from individual that have honour their hearts desires and subsequently found happiness and success in their chosen profession. What will you do if you have a dream of becoming successful in life but you are not in a position to accomplish it? Either due to financial constrains or other pressures and obligations, you dream is relegated to a future time, and your current situation doesn’t look anything like your heart’s desire or dream. Here are your choices:

1. Act with courage as if your dream is already real, no matter your current situation: - Every conscious man on earth has a dream of succeeding in life. Success is determined by your personal desire, passion and tenacity of purpose. Indeed everybody needs courage to succeed in any career, profession or vocation. Without courage success is a mirage. Nothing good comes easy. So, we need to be courageous devoted and determined in whatever we do or strive for. “Courage - unless a man has that virtue he has no security for preserving any other,” E. Fremont said. Failure in life is mainly because of our inability to approach our beautiful ideas and visions with strong courage. The Bible says, “Blessed is the man that heareth me, watching daily at my gates, waiting at the posts of my doors. For who so findeth me, findeth life and shall obtain favour from the Lord.” (Proverbs8: 34-35). Thus a man of courage is an unconventional person. Yes, it is difficult for men to wait patiently upon the Lord in times of tribulation. We need wisdom and courage and serenity to understand the word of God, because riches and honours are from Him. The fear of the Lord makes us abhor sloth, laziness, pride, arrogance, selfishness and wickedness in our lives. We should always remember to trust in the Lord with all our heart in whatever situation we find ourselves. God is going to reward us, the faithful, more abundantly. We need courage to face the realities of life. Many have failed to achieve their sweet dreams because they lack the courage and wisdom about how to actualize their dreams.

2. Do what you have to do in the meantime, but keep your vision alive in you mind and heart that it will sustains you spiritually: If you choose to succeed in life, everything else you do exist in service toward that goal you have set for yourself. As an aspiring musician, your part time job as a cleaner is a vehicle toward buying a guitar. Then, you speak, think, speak and practice music as much as you can when you are not doing your cleaning job. The quality of your life depends less on what you are doing with your body, and more on what you are doing with your time and spirit. Keep your soul nourished and everything else will fall into place. As Eleanor Roosevelt rightly noted, “The future belong to those who believe in the beauty of their dream.”

3. Honestly identify your talent, take a leap of faith and act on it: - Some who do this succeed gloriously and consider their leap the best moment of their life. Others do not ultimately live to the vision they set out for, but create a lifestyle more rewarding than the one they left. Others return to a position similar to their original one. Be truly honest with yourself. Recognize your weak points and talents. Have the courage and daring to face the challenges of life because of fear. But most fears are just negative visualization, and changing that vision to a positive one may be all you need to take steps toward living the life you have always dreamed of.

4. Make change in your present situation: - If you cann’t change anything about your present job, you can bring desired qualities of your dream into your situation. If you want to be a successful motivational speaker, you don’t need to stand on a stage to speak. You could start by writing inspirational articles for people in the hospitals and you will be amaze on the number of lives you will inspire and change within a short time.

5. Show love, compassion and appreciate others: - With every good things you do, you are sowing a seed through the harvest you may not see, your positive attitude towards others will grow into something that nurtures and thrive. Calling a friend who is sick will brighten his/her day.A stranger you help today may save someone’s life tomorrow. Your generosity towards someone in need may impact that person’s children and future generation to come

Ben is a world’s Famous Internet and Business Consultant. More articles at www.securejobnow.com

Ben is a world’s Famous Internet and Business Consultant. More articles at www.securejobnow.com

Article Source: How To Live A Fulfilled Life

by Ken Keis
“Encouragement offers more potential than cash. The amount of cash is limited, but you have an unlimited supply of encouragement … encouragement feeds people’s souls.”
Kenneth Blanchard
Author: The One Minute Manager

Everyone needs encouragement at one time or another, from the CEO, mother, father, child, or employee, to the professional athlete or performer.

Encouragement means to inspire, incite, foster, or stimulate courage with hope.

As many of us can recall, as children, we sometimes needed encouragement to complete a task. What we can not give to ourselves, we borrow from those around us.

For us as adults, our early situations may have changed but the human condition of needing support has not. At some level, we all need to be encouraged.

Whatever your life purpose and whether your work is in healthcare, education, business, criminal justice, ministry, families, or myriad thousands of other responsibilities, your overall activity should leave others feeling encouraged.

If your life or actions do not include the foundation of encouragement toward others, you need to evaluate how encouragement can become part of your purpose.

Start by giving it away. Encouragement is not something to be saved, collected, or withheld; that approach has little redeeming value. Encouragement is a perishable item best enjoyed in the moment. Once the aircraft has left the ground, an empty seat is a lost opportunity. When you hesitate in offering your encouragement, the opportunity is gone.

A funny thing happens when you encourage others — you feel encouraged and better about yourself.

Before I encourage each of you reading this article, I want to acknowledge the many encouragements that you as readers have given me.

NEVER, NEVER, NEVER underestimate the power of your encouraging words toward any other person! For example, many people seem to think that successful individuals need less encouragement. Don’t discount the impact you have or can have with everyone you meet. At any given moment, you can make a difference in someone else’s life by encouraging him or her. We need to remind ourselves that while this creates invaluable results, it costs us nothing.

It is important to graciously and thankfully accept encouragement from others. In other words, don’t discount your value or their confidence in you.

Finally, be authentic and intentional in your encouragement. Be real but look for opportunities to encourage others. Make it part of your mindset to encourage someone every single day. Give it away — your act of encouragement can and will affect millions.

The movie Pay It Forward calculated that three acts of kindness given away by one individual, then repeated by each person down the line daily, would, within two weeks, impact 4,787,969 lives.

Here is my challenge to you: before the end of today, encourage at least three individuals and ask them to do the same for three people each. I guarantee you will feel more confident and better about yourself as you do so.

The Encouragement Challenge

1. Encouragement inspires courage and hope into others.
2. No matter who we are, we all need some level of encouragement.
3. Encouragement is perishable’ at every opportunity give it away — saving it up has no redeeming value.
4. If you are fulfilling and living your purpose. Others should feel encouraged by you and your actions.
5. Be authentic and be real in your encouragement. If you can’t authentically encourage others, then don’t.
6. Be intentional. Nothing happens by accident. Make encouraging others a part of your mindset; do it every day.
7. Never discount the value your encouragement has to others. No matter who we are or what we do, we all need and appreciate it.
8. Never discount encouragement that is directed toward you from others. Gracefully and thankfully accept it.
9. Take the encouragement challenge. Encourage three individuals every day and ask each of them to do the same to three others.
10. Forward this article to at least three people you care about or who could benefit from reading it.
11. Pay attention to how giving encouragement makes others feel and how it makes you feel. Notice how your feelings of confidence improve because you encouraged others.
12. Remember, it costs nothing and it produces invaluable results.

Until next time, keep “Living on Purpose.”

Ken Keis

Ken Keis, MBA, CPC, is an internationally known author, speaker, and consultant. He is President and CEO of CRG Consulting Resource Group International, Inc., founded in 1979. Many professionals herald CRG as the Number One global resource center for Personal and Professional Development.

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Article Source: The Gift of Encouragement

by Stephen23 Pierce23
A wise man once told me that IQ has nothing to do with school. An IQ is learned through life lessons. Is this really true, can we go without schooling and still succeed? Well you be the judge. Let’s take a look at our own experiences shall we? If asked what the first wise lesson is that would come to mind, what would you’re answer be? That’s right, it does not have anything to do with what you where told in school. You see, brain stimulation does not come from a classroom. It comes from a special moment in life that you will never forget.

Am I saying that you should not send your children to school? No, that is not my point at all. My point is that you should not be worried about a failing grade, or even the fact that you might not have been the best student, or you might not have even been a student of school at all. We are all students of life, and being a student of life is so much more important than what your educational background might have been, or is.

To really progress in life we need to grasp the way of accelerated learning. Only this will make the different between standing still and going forward. Have you ever heard the phrase standing still is actually taking a step backwards? In today’s world of quick and adaptive personalities, standing still is not an option anymore. You tend to see a lot of people that where born in the last baby boom come from divided and split homes. So in turn, these people have dropped out of their schooling programs and have learned other ways to accomplish their goals.

More often than not these people are more likely to succeed simply because they are as some call it, street smart. And their EQ’s are often higher than those of schooled workers. So you need to stimulate your brain waves and make sure that you are always on your toes so that you can compensate for the lack of street smarts. But how do we stimulate those waves? How do you accomplish a higher emotional quotient in your life?

We have developed a program that simply said, connects your brain waves from dialup to broadband speeds. This program is so exhilarating that within the first two sessions you will feel like your brain is on fire. It will feel like driving a super car while you know that the car you own is only a Honda civic. It is the feeling of immense comprehension. Don’t wait to change your life.

This brain stimulation program is not something that will take years to show its fruits, and is very easy to keep up with. So are you ready for this EQ and IQ boost? Just remember that personal and professional achievements are just a moment away. So take a wise life lesson from us, and try this program.

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Article Source: Didn’t Do Well In School? Optimize Your Brain

by Inn Hui Lim
Are you happy with your life and where you are at now? If you are like the majority of people, chances are that you are not happy with your life and that you are living a “mere existence” wishing your life could be better but not knowing how to improve it.

The main cause for our happiness is our mind-set which creates the lives we have lived so far. Like things attract like- this is a basic rule of the law of attraction. If you want to change your life, the first thing you must do is to change your mind. You must also take action to create momentum

To change your life, there are also things you have to modify in your life.
Here are a are few tips to help you attract the life you want.

1. Change the way you live

One useful way of knowing why you have been attracting what you don’t want in your life is to look into your own life. Look at how you are living; examine your life-style, your habits and your routine
For example, if you don’t exercise at all, you should start an exercise routine as this will make you feel better about yourself. A few such simple things can greatly help you change your habits and routines.

2. Develop useful skills

If you desire to obtain something, you simply cannot just sit around wanting it but not doing something about it. For instance, if you want to lose weight, don’t just have wishful thinking: find out how you can do so. Read, ask people, get help. Remember the old saying “ God helps those who help themselves”?

3. Take Responsibility

We tend to play the blame game when things don’t go right. For instance, when a relationship breaks up, most people tend to blame the other party rather than oneself. If we take responsibility and ask: why didn’t it work? It will help us to grow as persons.
To achieve success in your life, you cannot continue blaming others. If you want to be a winner, you have to acknowledge the truth-it is you who attracted the things to your life. It is you who created the thoughts, feelings and made the choices to be where you are today

Inn Hui Lim (LL.B Hons) is a Law of Attraction enthusiast and owner http://MyLawOfAttractionSecrets.com. My Law of Attraction Secrets helps people to harness the power of their minds to crate the life they want. You can instantly download a free e-book on how to on how the Law of Attraction can change your life by visiting: http://MyLawOfAttractionSecrets.com

Article Source: Change Your Mind, Change Your Life: Attract What You Want

by Seminar Review
An emotion is just a state of mind or a feeling created when your focus on something that affects you on a mental and physical level. Everything we think we want out of life is all about our emotions. We may think we want better health, more wealth, or a better love life, but what we really want is happiness. It’s really not the “things” things that we want - we want the happy feelings we will have when we get the things. In this way, our lives are ruled by our emotions.

As Anthony Robbins has said, “Nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning you give it. If you don’t like the way you’re feeling, change the meaning”.

Every emotion we feel is created by us. Most people believe that their emotions are beyond their control. The think that emotions are uncontrollable reactions to things we encounter in life. This is not true. You can take control of your emotional responses, but only by dealing with them. Ignoring or denying your emotions is not the answer. You must be able to become the master of your 7 human emotions.

We have 7 different emotions, but our lives are driven by only two main categories - pain and pleasure. Our lives are governed by the desire for pleasure, or the desire to avoid pain. As the philosopher Jeremy Bentham said, “Nature has placed mankind under the government of two sovereign masters, pain and pleasure…(which) govern us in all we do, in all we say, in all we think: every effort we can make to throw off our subjection, will serve but to demonstrate and confirm it”.

Each of the 7 human emotions has both a positive and a negative side. We are drawn towards the positive emotions because they bring us pleasure, but we try to avoid the negative emotions because they cause us pain. Our instinct to avoid pain is actually stronger than our instinct to obtain pleasure. This is just how human beings are wired.

The 7 human emotions that bring us pleasure are Love, Sex, Hope, Faith, Sympathy, Optimism, and Loyalty.

The 7 emotions that cause us to feel pain are Fear, Hatred, Anger, Greed, Jealousy, Revenge, and Superstition. These all bring us discomfort, so we try to avoid experiencing them.

Anthony Robbins believes that people must learn to use their positive and negative emotions in order to succeed. Too many of us allow our emotions to use us instead. Life will control us unless we get control over our lives.

Our emotions, both positive and negative, have a purpose. They let us know whether we are moving toward something that will make us happy, or something that will bring us pain. We have to learn to listen to our emotions. If we try to suppress painful emotions, we merely make the problem worse in the long run. We will never be able move in the direction that can make us truly happy.

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Article Source: 7 Human Emotions and the Key to a Better Life

by Jim DeSantis
When we look at a certain object, a painting for example — we won’t be able to appreciate what’s in it, what is painted and what else goes with it , if the painting is just an inch away from our face. But if we step back a little further, we’ll have a clearer vision of the whole art work. This is the way we view ourselves. We are too close to see the real meaning of us. We need to step back.

We reach a point in our life when we are ready for change and ready for a whole bunch of information that will help us unlock our self improvement power but something can be right under our nose but we still don’t see it. It sometimes takes overwhelming evidence to get our attention.

Today, Anna thinks Carl hates her. Tomorrow, Patrick walks up to her and tells her he hates her. Anna stays the same and doesn’t mind her what other people say. The next day, she learns that Kim and John also dislike her. Anna will not realize the need for self improvement until the entire community hates her and she is totally alone and in emotional pain.

We learn our lessons when we experience emotional pain. We finally see the warning signs and signals when things get rough and tough.

…….When do we realize that we need to change diets? When none of our jeans and shirts fit us.

…….When do we stop eating candies and chocolates? When all of our teeth have rotted?

…….When do we realize that we need to stop smoking? When our lungs have gone bad?

…….When do we pray and ask for help? When we are told that we are bankrupt?

The only time most of us ever learn about unlocking our self improvement power is when our personal or business life is crashing and falling apart. We think and feel this way because we are afraid to change even though change becomes more painful the longer we ignore it.

Change will happen, like it or hate it. At one point or another, we are all going to experience different turning points in our life — and most people will eventually unlock their self improvement power. But, not because the world says so, not because our friends are nagging us, but because the pain of doing nothing will become unbearable.

Well balanced people don’t just accept change, they embrace it. Now, you don’t have to feel a tremendous heat before realizing the need for self improvement. Unlocking your self improvement power means unlocking yourself from the cage of thought that says: “its just the way I am.” This is such a poor excuse for people who fear and resist change.

Jen repeatedly tells everyone that she doesn’t have the guts to be around groups of people. She heard her mom, her dad, her sister, her teacher tell the same things about her to other people. Over the years, that is what Jen believes. She believes it is her story. And what happens? Every time she is faced with a crowd, at her house, in school, and in the community — she tends to step back or flee. Jen believes her story and she lives it over and over when she is faced with a group situation.

Jen has to realize that she can rewrite her story. Instead of having her story be one of a fearful person, she can realize and live the idea: “I am a confident person and I enjoy mingling with groups of people!”

Self improvement may not be everybody’s favorite word, but if we look at things from a different point of view, we might have greater chances of enjoying the whole step-by-step process instead of dreading the days until we are fully improved.

Three sessions in a week at the gym would result to a healthier life. Reading books instead of watching reality shows on TV will give us a more profound knowledge. Going out with friends and peers will help you take a step back from work and unwind. And, as you are enjoying the whole process of unlocking your self improvement power, you will realize that you are beginning to take things light and becoming happy.

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Article Source: Find Your Hidden Self Improvement Power

by Catherine Behan
I know you are lonely.

Spring is almost here and you see couples holding hands everywhere you go and you are dreading being alone…again.

I know that the economy is depressing and you are surrounded with annoying people day and night.

I also know that you can do something about it.

Did you know that focused attention to any one of the five senses brings you physiologically into the present. Where your body leads, your mind will follow. When one of your senses is consciously engaged you can feel you body relax, if you are paying attention, and that will calm you. You will actually feel better. The body always feels better when it is relaxed.

When you are in the present, aware of your physical world, you are actually more attractive to those people who will bring fun and love into your life!!

Let your nose lead the way and choose aromas you are drawn to during creative or productive times of day. Bring something that smells amazing into your home. Be willing to invest in yourself in this small way. When attracted to a scent, buy it. Then choose to notice it.

Here are five ways to connect to your nose, it does know best, after all!!

1. Get several aromatic candles. Visit a candle store and just keep smelling them until you find one you really like. If you don’t like any of them, just wait til a different time and try again. You will be drawn to certain aromas. Invest in that aroma and when you get it home, enjoy it consciously.

2. Bring fresh flowers into your home. This is a simple thing to do. Find a farmer’s market near you and shop there the same way. See which ones smell the best to you. I often buy two bouquets at a time. Even super markets carry aromatic bunches year round. Of course, you do have to put up with the side effect of stunning beauty that now lives in your environment!

3. Go Outside. Go outside on purpose three more times than you typically do every day for a week. Three calculated times and during each one, smell deeply. Close your eyes and smell deeply. Make it a goal that at least three times that week, you get to a beautiful place, park, zoo, beach, museum, and focus on what those places smell like. Breathe it in.

3. Open the windows. Even if it is cold outside, just go open the windows and let air in every room. Amazing how we don’t think to do that. Allowing a stream of air run through your home will always leave you feeling refreshed. Notice how different the house smells when you have opened it up.

4. Light Incense. Incense has been used for thousands of years to transform the energy of a room. There are certain scents who have specific properties that inspire various moods. When you go to an incense shop. Smell them first before you see what they are good for. You will be drawn by what you like.

5. Oil Rings. At your neighborhood New Age shop, you can find oil essences and a ring that goes around a light bulb. As the bulb gets warm, a gentle fragrance fills the room. This can be more subtle than incense.

Just focusing on what you are smelling, making conscious choices to smell things on purpose for a week will bring you to a real sense of presence. Body awareness is the key to outrageous self confidence.

Try it for a week, I dare ya!

Bonus Exercise: Just choose to enjoy the aromas that are around you every day when you slice in to an orange, grind your coffee, walk in to a barbecue place or make toast, I won’t tell anybody!

Bonus Romance Reward: When you are “in the moment”, aware of what it is your are sensing with your body at any one moment, you are your authentic self and right in that moment you are attracting the love you are desiring. Spend as many of these moments as you can, that’s right, spend them. You are investing those moments of awareness and relaxing the body are you at your best. Who wouldn’t fall in love with that in a woman.

Catherine Behan, M.S. is an Author, Relationship Expert, Seminar Leader, Inspirational Speaker and Internet Advice Columnist. For more information on The Soul Mate Process plus a free audio download check out http://SoulMateSavvy.com

Article Source: Your Nose Knows: 5 Ways To Amp Up Your Attractor Factor

by Donna Filipiak
How did Bob Proctor go from making $4000 to $175,000 in just ONE year? And then in a short time later making millions?

In 1961, Bob Proctor was working at a fire house in Canada making $4000 a year. The problem was he was $6000 in debt. He would have to work an entire year without spending any money on food, rent and other necessities in order to get out of debt. Fortunately, a friend handed Bob a book called “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill. This book changed Bob’s life.

In this book, Napoleon says to write down the exact amount of money you desire, determine what you intend to give in return for the money you desire, decide on a definite date you intend to possess the money you desire and create a definite plan for carrying out your desire. Bob did this. He wrote that he wanted to make $25,000 by the end of the year. He read it over and over as Napoleon Hill says to do but he didn’t really believe it…at least not at first. He finally realized that in order to get what you want; you need to believe that it is possible. Once he believed it would happen, the idea of opening an office cleaning business came to him. This business grew rapidly and within a year he was making $175,000. In a short time after that, he was making millions!

Do you think it is possible to think yourself rich? Bob Proctor does. Bob has helped countless people “think and grow rich”. He has spent 40 years teaching and motivating people to do just that.

If you have not experienced one of Bob Proctor’s seminars or saw him in the movie “The Secret” then you are in for a real treat. He is a phenomenal speaker, teacher and motivator.

Bob has a new program called “Six Minutes to Success”. This program involves a new video every weekday that will help you “think and grow rich”. I am fascinated by Bob so I decided to try his program. I started a week ago and already I feel like a new person. He says that you will see a marked improvement in your attitude in just a couple of weeks. Bob is teaching me to control my thoughts. He is helping me get rid of the negative thoughts and replace them with positive ones. I find myself looking for good in things I could only find bad. I set my goal and am working towards it. With the help of Bob Proctor I know I will reach it.

Six Minutes to Success can also help you in other aspects of your life. It can help you with relationships, both personal and work. It can help you reach goals other than making money. All you have to do is watch the one minute videos and then spend 5 minutes thinking about it. Hence, the six minutes a day.

Personal growth and self-motivation is what Bob Proctor teaches and teaches well. I can’t wait to see what I will accomplish with this program. Maybe I will reach my goal in one year instead of two. All I know is I’m hooked for life.

Donna Filipiak has been an internet marketer for 2 1/2 years. She has learned by trial and error and wants to share her knowledge with everyone..especially newbies. http://drflipsecrets.blogspot.com. Learn more about Bob Proctor’s program at http://secretstosuccess.ws.

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